Children
pay the highest price for the evils of the world.
It happens to hundreds of thousands of children
in the United States and to millions of children throughout the
world. As with any illegal activity, accurate information and data
that convey the true scale of the problem are hard to measure accurately.
One thing we know with absolute certainty: everything is stolen
from them. Their development, their rights to an education,
to health, and to grow up in a protected and safe environment free
from abuse and exploitation .... all of it, gone.
Traffickers in the United States use terribly coercive
methods to recruit their victims. Yes, most trafficking victims
in the United States are American youth. They will do, say
or spend almost anything to bring young people into their "stable"
of prostitutes. They go to these extreme measures simply because
the business is so profitable.
In any case, the children under their control become
slaves. This may sound like a problem that exists only in distant
countries suffering from poverty, warfare and political chaos. Nothing
could be further from the truth. Because child trafficking - the
commercial sexual exploitation of children - happens in every community
in America, including yours.
However, there is success
for those who are fighting to save these children. Here are a few
of their stories as they appear in Ahava Kids Founder and Director,
Raymond Bechard’s Global Blog.
"Life Is Good!"
These are the first three words of a beautiful hand-written letter
we received from a young woman just today. I called and asked her
if I could share some of the things she wrote with you and she said,
"Yes! You have to! I want people to know what happens to us
out there."
Her story as a trafficking victim in America begins
very quickly. Her escape and rehabilitation into a life that is
"good," safe, happy and full of bright horizons, will
continue for years.
In 2007 "Mary" met a man who promised
her "so much money you'll be driving a Mercedees in a few weeks."
He told her she would be treated like a princess, like a "little
Barbie doll," complete with a new wardrobe and exciting parties.
He told her she wouldn't have to worry about money anymore . . .
she only had to let him take some pictures of her and do exactly
what he told her to do.
She was reluctant, but with no where else to turn,
she agreed. She had experienced a lot of trouble in her life and
this man was offering a way out. The photos were taken immediately.
Then, just a few minutes later, her posting went up on Craigslist
- a place where men find sex for sale. The phone started ringing
right away . . . and Mary had her first "date."
Four hours. It was four hours from the time she
met the pimp until she had sex for money with her first "John."
Four hours that would send her down a road of abuse, violence, humiliation,
drug abuse and unimaginable degredation.
Then she was arrested. That's when some very caring
law enforcement professionals called Ahava Kids. We met Mary a few
hours later, took her into safety, got her new clothes, brought
her to the doctor, and asked her what she wanted to do with her
life. "I'm not sure yet. I just want to sit still for a little
while." So, that's what we let her do.
A few days later, we located an excellent program
for her rehabilitation and care. It was from there that she wrote
the letter which came today...."I feel like I have a lot more
self-esteem, courage, and hope. Everyday is a good day! I just want
to take this time to thank you guys from the bottom of my heart.
Your support, love, and all the laughter we've shared has made such
a difference in my life. I love you guys and miss you!"
Yes, "life is good" for Mary now. But
what haunts me the most is how she ends her letter . . . "You
know, there are so many girls and guys still out there just like
me. What are we going to do?"
She Has No Place To Go . . .
After being held for months in an apartment against her will. After
being turned out as a prostitute, forced to make $1500 a day. After
being threatened, addicted to drugs, and abused. After all that,
she was finally able to contact the police and make her way out.
The police called us immediately and we met "Cal" in a
Diner at about 11:00 o'clock one night a few days ago.
She was terrified. Terrified of strangers. Terrified
of the pimp from whom she had escaped. Terrified to face tomorrow.
Her fears were justified. While one of our female Intervention Specialists
sat talking quietly with Cal on one side of the empty diner, I sat
with three detectives in a booth along the opposite wall. The three
of them explained to me what they already knew about Cal's story.
She had been coerced by a man she thought she knew.
He had taken her to his apartment and bought her nice things. He
made promises. He treated her very well...for the first few weeks.
Then, he told her it was time to go to work. If she refused, he
said, he would kill her family.
So she went to work.
He sold her online, in strip clubs and in the back
rooms of bars. He sold her any way and every way he could. And he
made a lot of money. All the while keeping her high, and never letting
her leave his sight. Then, one day, he left her alone in a hotel
room just long enough for her to make a phone call. That was the
beginning of her escape.
But now, there is no place for her to go. And that
is what terrifies her the most. The man who held her captive, her
pimp, is constantly looking for her. He wants her to go back to
work and he knows she can be dangerous to him in Court.
As the detectives finished telling me Cal's story,
I asked, "Now what?" They simply said, "We thought
you could tell us what to do." As I looked over the to the
corner booth where the young girl was talking to our staff member,
another detective asked, "Is your safe
house ready yet?" The pit in my stomach got heavier and
turned over a few times. "No, not yet," I said. "But,
we'll figure something out."
You see, being rescued from a trafficker, a modern-day
slave handler of the worst kind, is only the first step to freedom.
Cal and hundreds of thousands of young people just like her across
the United States will not know true freedom until they can escape
from the awful and intentional fear that has been forced into them.
The only way to release them from the chains of
fear is to get them somewhere safe, somewhere they can feel at home,
where no one is trying to get to them. That's why the Ahava
Kids Safe House is such a priority.
As I tried to think of options for Cal, the detective
finished by saying, "Well, I hope you guys open your safe house
soon. We're going to have a lot more girls like Cal coming your
way." Rescued, but not free. Escaped, but still in prison.
We can get them out, but getting them out is not enough. We must
give them sanctuary
to flee from fear and rebuild their lives.
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You Can’t Have Her . . .
Some years, Thanksgiving doesn't really work. Some years, the day
doesn't provide the reflection or depth it promises. It falls short.
It's not Thanksgiving's fault. It's ours.
It's our fault that we don't build Thanksgiving
into every day of the year. Thanksgiving is and always has been
about deliverance. Being delivered from trouble, repression, sickness,
danger and all other evils, has motivated us to give thanks on this
one day. Yet, we rarely stop to thank God for the deliverance we
have been given ever day of our lives. We shouldn't expect Thanksgiving
to make up for all that unexpressed gratitude. That's why Thanksgiving
doesn't really work some years.
Except this year.
This year, Thanksgiving worked. This year a group
of people answered the call when a young girl was in trouble. She
was held captive by pimps and drug dealers. She called for help
when a UPS man came to the wrong door. She escaped with the help
of a SWAT team. And she went with Ahava Kids when we got the call.
She was delivered and today she is safe. Today
she does not have to worry that someone is trying to kill her or
sell her. She is safe because when Ahava Kids asked people for help,
they came to the Thanksgiving table and saved her life.
So, to the people who answered that call, Thank
you. This year, I give thanks to you on Thanksgiving
And to the people who enslaved her. To the people
who imprisoned her mind, her spirit, her soul and her body, I will
only say this......
You Can't Have Her.
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Where Is The Baby?
I went out on patrol recently with the New York Police Department
Human Trafficking Task Force. NYPD has 30,000 officers, and six
of them deal with trafficking. We are working with them because
they have nowhere to place young people when they are taken in for
prostitution. By law, anyone 17 and under in prostitution is not
a criminal, but a victim, so they can't put them in jail. Consequently,
they call us for placement 24/7/365. That's one of our biggest challenges,
but we have an even bigger challenge.
At about 1:00 a.m. I was sitting in the back seat
of an unmarked car as we drove around Hunts Point in The Bronx.
This is a notorious section for prostitution. I noticed a young
girl walking slowly down and abandoned street. I told the office
driving that we needed to double back and see what she was doing.
Just as we turned the corner to make our return, I saw the lights
of an eighteen-wheeler flash across the street from where the girl
was walking. By the time we returned she was gone, but I told the
detective, "She's in that truck." As I said that the truck
started to pull away. We followed it as it slowly drove a few blocks,
then turned, then turned again, driving without any one direction
or purpose ... and that's not something truck drivers do in New
York. Finally, he pulled over and turned off his lights. We all
got out and approached the cab of the truck. The detectives knocked
on the doors and opened them. The driver came out first, then the
girl. She had been negotiating with him as they were driving slowly
around. You don't need the details of what she was doing for the
$40 he paid her. The important parts are these:
- She told us her name which I can't tell you here. Let's call
her "Nan."
- Nan gave us an address where she said she is staying. We have
been checking regularly with no success.
- She also told us she had to work all day and night, every day
and night, because she is supporting three men where she is staying.
They all have drug addictions and so does she. Nane is supporting
four drug habits as a prostitute.
- Though she looks older, she is probably no older than18, and
says she has been on the streets for five years. This makes sense
since the average age of females entering prostitution in the
US is 13.
- Okay, here's the hard part. According to Nan, and from her still
protruding belly and naval, we have no reason not to believe her,
she gave birth only seven days prior to finding her in the truck.
She said that after giving birth, she was out working the streets
two days later.
- We are doing everything we can to find the baby. It's a boy.
She is not telling the truth as to what happened to the child
after she gave birth in the hospital. We can't find the boy and
neither can the police. The difficulty is that unwanted children
are often sold here.
- Nan refused to come with us or accept any help. (It was freezing
that night and she had only flip-flops on her feet.)
- We will keep searching for the Nan and try to determine the
fate of her baby. Check back here for updates.
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